How To Start Wearing Lolita Fashion as a Teen: Tips from a Fellow Teen Lolita (Part 1)

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Hello everyone!~ If you're reading this now, you're most likely a teen who is interested in starting lolita fashion! Many helpful guides come from lolitas who are usually in their early 20s, so relating to them might be a bit hard. No fear now since I'm a 15 year old lolita and I'll be helping you start your lolita wardrobe!~

Before you start actually buy your clothes, it's important to know which lolita style you want to start out with. Originally, I was introduced to lolita fashion through Mana (who created the gothic lolita brand Moi-meme-Moitie) and I wanted to be just like him! I then started to like classic lolita, but suddenly switched into liking sweet lolita and that's the style I prefer! This process took a little over a year as I also researched lolita fashion a whole ton before actually buying it.

If you're not familiar with the sub-styles of lolita fashion, here's a quick run down:




Sweet Lolita: Sweet lolita focuses on pastel colors such as pink, lavender, baby blue, and mint. Other colors such as red (for strawberry or cherry prints), brown (for chocolate prints), and black (usually a colorway to show the print better) are also present. Prints are very popular with motifs such as sweets and candies, chocolate, cute animals, carousels, etc. 




Gothic Lolita: To my knowledge, this is one of the earlier styles of lolita fashion, dating back to the 90s when Mana created the term EGL (Elegant Gothic Lolita). This style has changed drastically if you image gothic lolita being a simple black dress with white lace (there is a style for that further down). In these days, black is usually the main color paired up with white, red, blue, gold, and other darker colors. Gothic lolita has both dresses based on their design only or includes a print with a gothic theme on them such as crosses, vampires, churches, gothic gates, etc.





Classic Lolita: Classic lolita shows more of the Victorian influence the fashion is known for. It focuses on muted colors such as beige, green, brown, burgundy, and others making it a mature style of lolita compared to sweet. Dresses can be designed based or have prints such as roses and other flowers, forest animals (deers, birds, bears), fairy tales, and royalty themes.




Old-School Lolita: It can be argued if it is it's own style, but old-school has a look different to what lolita fashion has become in recent years. Old-school lolita dates back to the 90s to mid-2000s. These dresses were purely design based, usually a simple dress with lace. Rectangle headdresses and rocking-horse shoes with lacy socks were popular back then, but in modern days, it is usually considered "ita". Do not worry, though, if you're interested in this style as it has made a small comeback! 




 Kodona/Ouji: Although kodona (boystyle) and ouji (prince) are debatable names, this style is like the male version of lolita fashion. No dresses are involved, but instead shorts, coats, vests, and hats make this style different from the rest. Common colors include black, red, blue, white, beige, gold, and silver. The whole outfit is worn to be prince-like with a boyish feel to it.





Other Sub-Styles: (In order: Casual, Punk, Country, Sailor, Hime (Princess), Wa lolita). Lolita fashion has many other styles (some I haven't included). They range in difficulty of wearing them, with casual, sailor and country being the easiest and punk, hime, and wa being the hardest and aren't recommended for beginners. 


Don't forget to research up on other styles not shown (such as Circus, Pirate, Shiro and Kuro, Qi, Ero, Military, and others)! Once you have found your preferred style of lolita, make search to read part 2 of my tips where I explain how to be a good lolita and avoid becoming the dreaded "ita"!



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  1. Thank you for making this! It really helped me bunches. But I have a question, if you don't mind. I love the gothic Lolita style very much. So much so that I partake in it. I also, though, as a casual person, love the casual Lolita style. Is it okay to mix the two? Sometimes wearing full out gothic Lolita, and other times dressing up in something more casual? I fear doing this because maybe someone will call me out for not being completely goth Lolita...

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    1. That should be fine, nobody should be "calling you out" for it. It might make building your wardrobe up a little tougher as you have 2 styles but that shouldn't stop you. You could always incorporate gothic lolita accessories into your casual wear? Hope this helps.

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